Gia lai gai kee... That's what I was doing w/ lao da, andy, hao and christine today.
We met for k lunch at paradiz centre and andy really cracks me up. Ming ming can sing very well one he purposely have to sing until pua sia then he happy. Qi guai. =P
Hao is lao da's friend and christine is hao's gf. Hao, like lao da and andy, are still serving ns, while christine is an air stewardess. She looks like mei ren yu from tong xin yuan. =) I've met both of them on separate occassions before. Christine, myself and lao da went to far east once to buy presents for lao da's angel. Went with karaoke w/ lao da, andy and hao once before.
And also, I've met lao da's friend: junwei, once. We went for dinner together.
Being ard with lao da I am always surprised with myself. The last time we went out in may, I was still telling him that I cant face people from poly, and I dowan to get to know more people. At the same time I wasnt going out w/ friends enough. I justify tt I need my rest on sunday, but I should be spending sats with friends mah! And fri nights if possible too.
Lao da and andy spent a good hr explaining things to me how I should be letting go and how I should be spending time w/ friends (to distract myself from stalking certain specific friends, whahaha).
And just 2 mths later, I realised I've done tt. =)
I seldom meet friends of friends. But with lao da anything might happen. Once upon a time, andy = lao da's friend. Now andy IS MY FRIEND! And a good friend at that. We dont have the chance to gather, like how I dont have much chance to go out w/ lao da. But once we met up, there is free flow of crap. Whahahaha.
I am really happy that I am beginning to have fun in life again. My block leave is really leaving me in good moods, I must remember my happiness even when I returned to work on 25th.
I was originally worrying about incentive, or the missing of it. Now I just want to have fun and forget about them. I find brain washing very effective for me. I just have to keep repeating to myself that I am blessed enough. Good things that happen to me are part of my good fortune. I dont care if I earned it or I am just a lucky bitch. I should be satisfied! More money gives me the freedom to buy things, but in the first place I must remember I shouldnt be buying things that are too expensive.
I promise myself that from now on, no matter what I buy, as long as the price tag is beyond $30 per item, I must stop and think twice/thrice.
To many people, $30 is so little. But I want to remind myself that 10 items will be $300 le. That is a huge part of my savings! =) And the thing is tt, although I dont spend on expensive items, I buy a lot of things! I have at least another 8 bags of shopping which I havent sorted out. -_-"
Which brings me to another topic.
I want to get married soon, and I want to have a walk in wardrobe. I need not a big space! But I want a small space to myself, with all my clothes and books in the room. I will place a sofa in this small space, and I want to duck in whenever I want to be alone.
This room will be out of bounds to everyone!
When I go view flats, I will scruntinise all floor plans and ji hua where I can duck this small space into. Hee.
Alternatively, I want to service a loan for a big house. Nevermind it will take me forever to finish paying for it, but I must have space to myself so tt I wont lash out on my husband or child/children when I am angry. =) It is for the good of everyone also la.
Oh!!! And recording my life during my block.
(Sat: Went for k lunch w/ mashi and went shopping.)
(Sun: Went for k lunch w/ lao da, andy, hao and christine.)
And my plans for the coming wk.
Mon: I am going to buy a pair of flats from my fav shoe shop at je central, then I will be going to apply for my dbs debit card. I will be getting my pills, and get sumptuous lunch in the form of macdonald. Whahahaha.
Tues: No plans as yet
Wed: Going out with camilla. Guess it is splurging time again.
Thurs: No plans as yet
Fri: Going out with wanxin for sakae at bukit batok. Catching up time!!
Sat: No plans as yet
Sounds like a lot of no plans yet hor!
But I've got lots of things that I can do at home... while I'm home. Fei hua I know.
- pack wardrobe
- pack book shelf
- pack table (notice it is 3 major events...explain below, k?)
- wash all clothes in my wardrobe
- organise my bags
- throw out shoes tt I will no longer wear
- read (of course!)
- take pics of my world possessions (wow~ this phrase heard many times le hor? Hee)
- take pics of my past project and write them into cdr.
- want to also, create my dream bedroom space. =)
And hor... tmr also have to: renew passport.
I shall be doing it online. I will need to take pics of myself with my wu-wu-dong-dong, and I will need to spent $50 to renew for 5 yrs. Garmen really know how to dok commoners leh! $50 leh!! It's a lot of money ok! I can buy 2 pairs of shoes ok. Sickening. =(
And I cant even do it with my dbs nets online. I have to use my citibank debit card! Sickening to the max. If only I already have my dbs debit card.
While I am talking about this dbs debit card, I have to report I am really happy that I will be going to apply for it tmr. 3 mths ago I would still refused to get a debit card, but rather, trusting my atm cards for my transactions.
But on a reflection note on what happen past few days, I begin to think that dont have debit card really bu xing.
I came to realise that the auntie at dano ignored me because I've choose to speak w/ her in mandarin when I asked her to get a top in a different size for me. Me la! See tt she is auntie I immediately spoke to her (in my perfect mandarin, no less, whahahahaha) to get me a top. This auntie just flatly said: "mei you liao".
I turned ard and informed mashi tt "sheesh, they are out of sizes, shall we be visiting another store?". That auntie immediately called out, "miss ar, sorry leh, you size you size, wo ji cuo le."
As an afterthought I realised she must have took me as a zhong guo mei!!!! Shit la.
This isnt too surprising. Like I said, I speak perfect mandarin *smirks*. Aiyah, let me hao lian la, speaking incomprehensive-to-commoners mandarin is my only qiang xiang la... Hee.
Compared to the rest of the singaporeans, I have been mistaken once too many as a zgm le. I am immuned to people's exclaimation of "wow, ni de hua wen wei shen me hui zhe me hao?"
And what doesnt tt got to do with getting a debit card leh? So that I can sign it. I am having this warped mindset that zgm cant take debit cards, whahahahaha. Actually my citibank debit card can do a better job when I need to use to seh lousy service staff, but I dowan to use it leh, for some reasons.
Andy informed that amf will be at $24/annum. Is that ex? I dont know. But at the same time, seems like dbs doesnt have points system that can use to waive the amf. Which will be saddening, cos I use my dbs accts to do everything. I paid $1200 of bills with my dbs acct a yr leh! =P
On top of that, I am usually cash broke and I will swipe nets for the slightest purchases. Hee.
Oh, and talking abt andy. This see lang arh today very jian leh. He wanted to buy a top so I volunteered to measured it against his shoulders. And he squirm like I am going to rape him or something. Sickening to the max. >.<>.<"
He's a worm or what?
Later he sd his paisehs to me and said he is just fidgety by nature. Please la. I dont know meh? Sing k you also must mimick lin jun jie in the jiang nan mtv and roll against the walls.
-_-"
But he is still v nice la. He said next yr he will buy me a watch for my birthday! =) So nice of him hor? I think no la, by then I will dok a more expensive present.
Speaking of which, lao da gave me a book as my pressie! Love that thought! I love it when people give me books as gifts because that makes me feel intellectual. I'm silly but I appreciate it when my friends feel I have the making to be an intellect.
Heee Heee Heee Heee.
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Know what, I was trying to think of a title for this entry. I read thru and realised it was "Thoughts, some not making sense at all." nor "Reflections on and of myself" nor anything else. It is purely digression. I am just jumping from one thing to another and crapping away. Whahahahahaha.
But this is my blog. I do what I want on it. Never you mind! =P
