Monday, August 20, 2007

Childish leh!

A guy that I know of, just msn me to tell me that he will be deleting my number away since we have nothing to talk about.

He was offline by the time I saw the message, a mere 5 minutes late.

I dont really remember what I did to cause him to be so adamant to delete me from his phone list, and he is the first person whom ever did that and told me that he was doing it(I am taking the benefit of doubt that many people had deleted my number away).

But I do remember, our conversations (over the phone and over sms) dribble to a stop when he once asked me out for dinner, then he decided to cancel because he heard that I was going to do work at home, and didnt want to disturb me.

I told him it was okay, I have to go for dinner anyway, but he say we would arrange another time, no worries.

And so I say ok.

The same night, I went out to watch movies after doing drawings for the whole day. I began drawing since 10am and had worked all the way till 9pm (though of course my concentration level wasnt 100% all the time). I felt justified to go out for a movie, and off I went.

He smsed me to ask me how's my work coming, I told him I had done a fair bit and I was then out drinking coffee with friends.

(Ok, that wasnt the whole truth I admit. I was really drinking coffee with them then, but it was because the movie wasnt starting until 12am and we met up at 10.30pm. )

He said ok, and said the customary 'Enjoy yourself'.

My hp was in vibration mode, and I only saw his next message after I finished the movie, which was ard 2am. He said that he just reached home, and commented that he was tired, then in the same message, asked me whether my show was over. The sms was stamped 1.30am ++.

I replied, and told him no, and told him that I am going to catch a movie. (Another half-truth, because I was going to catch another movie. Haha. )

He then replied (and I could feel the daggers from the other side of the sms) "Ask you to go out you say dowan, then you go watch movie."

I am not a pushover by any means. I wasnt in the wrong and hence I dont fear speaking up. "KNS. I say it is ok to go for dinner but you say dowan, then now you blame me for going to watch movie."

Granted, I might had misinterpreted his sms in the first place, but who is he to rule my movements? From then we no longer sms each other as frequently, then we slowly send sms once every few days.

Hey, it is not I didnt try ok. Once he smsed me to ask me where I was going that night, being a friday night, I told him I was going drinking (the same night I puked, remember, haha). His sms length dropped from approx 2 screen pages to an "OK."

"Dont really feel like going, but boss jio, so have to go." I lamented.

"OK."

"So do you drink a lot?" I asked.

"No."


&%*^... how to continue conversation like that? So I scolded a few vulgarities beneath my breathe and went off for my lessons. Later that night, while I was at the pub after my lesson, he asked me whether I was still drinking.

I told him I'd just reached, and should be still hanging around for another couple of hours at least.

"OK."

Bloody 'OK' again. It was super irritating to receive such a reply, and I can complain a whole blog entry just on rude sms replies.


1 hour later, I decided to make peace, and smsed him, telling him that I was bored at the pub, haha. He replied and ask me why dont I leave.

But I couldnt. My boss is there and I cannot just walk out on a party he organised.

He replied "Too bad then. You chose it."


How much rudeness am I supposed to endure before I am allowed to blow up? I stopped sms-ed him altogether and ignored his sms. Now he sent me such a msn message, and I cant help but to think he is very childish.

Sigh. How old already. Why play this kind of friend/dont friend kind of stupid games?

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